So I’ve been dating a man for the past 2 months, and I am struggling achieving orgasm with him. I’ve never had this problem with anyone else, whether it was previous partners, one night stands or by myself. It’s not necessarily that he does anything ‘wrong’, however he is a lot less experienced than me and most men his age (he’s only had a few sexual partners before).
I communicate very clearly about that I like, what turns me on, what feels good etc and he listens for the most part, and seems to be a good listener and a very fast learner. Problem is, we have had sex about 20 times since we started dating and I’ve orgasmed maybe three times, and all of those times the orgasm felt… incomplete? Like a half orgasm? I wasn’t at all satisfied. My orgasms are usually very satisfying, and a lot of the time they’re the body shaking, can’t move, tears in my eyes kind, but for some reason I can’t seem to achieve this with him even thought he is doing exactly what I tell him he should be doing. We have tried different positions, toys etc and nothing seems to be hitting the spot. What is happening here?
